Ryoko! and other pregnant women...'mere

[LavenderSession]

My nephew always says 'mere instead of come here..it's the cutest thing in the world!

Anyway, I'm curious if any of you get extremely irritated with your S.O. for no reason at all. You're just very angry at them.....doesn't make much sense, but this is how I feel today toward my boyfriend. Good thing he's at work! lol

[Ryoko!]

YES! It's perfectly normal. I think it's a woman's way of testing her S.O's pateince for parenthood lol.
There have been times that my SO can't do ANYTHING right, and the poor guy, he can't understand..it's not just him, it's the entire WORLD that just pisses me off to no end!
Well today he forgot to take out the garbage, so when he called to check up on me at lunch he got an earfull. Normally I wouldn't care if the trash wasn't taken out, but dammit when he says he's gonna do something he'd better do it, becuase my back hurts and the trash dumpster is like 2 blocks away.

Oh and jealousy, all other wemon are WHORES. lol. It's true. they are all ugly too. I think that shocked him more than anything. He doesn't even watch the man show anymore.

There have been days where he just can't do anything to make me feel better. I can't explain to him, it's just a phase, it will pass...he has to make a huge deal out of it (pisses me off more) and pretty soon we are at each others throats. On one hand, I understand he wants to help, but I don't <i>want</i> help, I just want to be angry for no reason! Does that make any sense? Is that asking too much?

;)

[angeles]

Sorry I'm not preggers but I'm replying anyway :p Towards the end of my pregnancy (esp. when I went over my due date) I was in no mood to talk to :p I was one nasty bitch to be polite. My little sister told me later that she was "afraid" to ask me for a piece of gum-that's how bad I was. :f I didn't realize I was that mean, it's funny to look at it now. Glad I'm not getting pregnant anytime soon... Being a bitch all the time drains the energy out of me (and when you don't have any there, it's kinda hard to drain anymore :c :) )

-angeles

[LavenderSession]

Lmao! Thanks for replying! Yeah, last night I thought I was gonna hurt him....I laid next to him in bed and just wanted to scream at him for snoring too loud. Like he can help it. And today...I'm on this kick where it's like why do I have to tell him to do things? Can't he look at the trash can and SEE it needs to be taken out? Ugh.

I'm glad I'm not going psycho or anything and other pregnant women go through this too. :) I just wish we didn't have to.

[LavenderSession]

oops, double post. :e

[chloe dancer]

and all along i thought mike had turned into a moron for nine months......

[supernova]

These stories are great. :) I'm only at 14 weeks, so I haven't gone psycho yet. I do get very upset with other people, but not my husband. Even little things will set me off that normally I would just shrug away. People at work are particularly at risk. I think I'm making a concious effort not to steer it Phil's direction, though.

[LavenderSession]

That's really sweet of you, supernova! My poor boyfriend gets the shit-end of the deal on *everything* At 14 weeks, I was hysterical 90% of my day. I cried over everything! I even annoyed myself! lol

Here's a funny story....I cried last night cause the people on his message boards are mean to me 'cause they don't know it's me. lol It's a long story.

Seriously though, since I'm not all pissy at him today, I do have to give him props for being soooo patient and not blowing his lid!

[naws]

LavenderSession: a tip to deal with a snoring bed partner - get some earplugs. that's what i had to do and it's saved our relationship. but sometimes it gets so loud i hear him through the earplugs! those are times when i reach over and gently pull/push on his pillow or 'accidentally' touch his leg with my foot. this usually gets him to roll over. if i actually wake him up he'd get all pissy with me.

so yeah, at 12.5 weeks i've been pretty good. i feel like my husband is being super nice and wonderful, but we'll see how i feel in 5-6 months. my biggest personality change so far has been a total lack of concentration!